Wednesday, May 7, 2014

The Dilemma of a Family Photographer

This October, it will be Amma's 18th death anniversary. Flipping through the 
family album is considered a happy activity among most families around the 
world. On the contrary, it has always made me sad because of the fact that 
there are only very few photographs of myself and Amma in it. There are plenty 
of photographs of myself with my brother, photographs of my birthdays with my 
father and brother, little me reading the newspaper with my father, etc. Her 
absence from most of the photographs kept me pondering about my 
relationship with her for a really long time.

Now, I've become a Mother myself. I'm also the family photographer. Today I 
understand the dilemma & predicament of a family photographer. I'm here 
capturing all these family photographs but I'm never in any of them! If I could 
travel back in time, I would happily introduce to her the concept of 'Selfies'.

Here is a picture of my 1 and a 1/2 year old son, Kedaar, lying on my chest. 
That’s how he likes to fall asleep whenever he can. Advance Mother's day wishes to all my readers.